Neptune in the 7th House - Empathetic Partner

Neptune in House Seven

Neptune in the 7th House Overview:

Neptune in the 7th house symbolizes relationships underscored by deep and meaningful emotional and spiritual bonds. In the seventh house, Neptune highlights an emphasis on the spiritual component of relationships and also engenders a desire for a true soulmate. At the same time, it can also contribute to delusions and naïve expectations that are projected onto partners. Individuals with this placement may be subject to certain disappointments due to an unrealistic perspective about the state of their relationships.

They may have a propensity for trying to save or redeem the relationship when it might be better to simply part ways and move on in life. It can engender a tendency to cling to unhealthy or toxic relationships because of denial. Furthermore, Neptune in the 7th house can manifest a deeply attentive and intuitive partnership. These individuals are able to pick up on the energy, vibrations and emotional states that their loved ones and companions are experiencing. They typically seek relationships that provide a sense of emotional security and unconditional love. Here now is a look at Neptune in the seventh house and what it means as both a transit and a natal chart placement.

Neptune in the 7th House key Traits:

seeks soulmate
sensitive and receptive partners
desire for spiritual companionship
illicit love affairs
confusion in relationships
responsive
easily swayed
give more than they take
overlooking flaws in partner
intuitive link with others
lack of objectivity about relationships
idolizing romantic interests
unrealistic relationship ideals

The 7th House:

The 7th house in astrology is known as the house of relationships. It corresponds to Libra and its ruler Venus. This house represents marriage, partnerships, joint ventures and collaborations. It also includes contracts, lawyers, counselors and also rivals and competitors. This house governs the realm of how we share and negotiate with others for the purpose of mutual benefit. It relates to our need for companionship and strong alliances.

This is also the house of the “shadow self” being that it stands opposite the 1st house which represents the individuality and ego conscious self. Planets and aspects formed in this house can indicate how well we are able to manage our long term relationships. The planets that occupy this house can inform us as to what type of qualities desire in a partner and relationship. Additionally, Venus’ placement in the chart can indicate what type of mate we are attracted to.

The Planet Neptune:

In astrology, the planet Neptune is regarded as the great Dissolver. The object of dissolution is the ego and the preoccupation with selfish pursuits. Neptune is the planet of mysticism and spiritual awakening. Its influence brings our attention to higher ideals and stimulates our capacity to dream and imagine possibilities. In contrast to Saturn, Neptune is detached from reality and can even be in denial of it. Accepting a bitter or inconvenient truth can be difficult for Neptune to stomach or come to grips with directly. Neptune provides self healing through escapism and faith in things unseen and only intuitively felt.

Neptune in the 7th House Natal:

Neptune in the 7th house is a natal chart placement that basically signifies there is a lot of selflessness and a spiritual significance given to the collaborations and partnerships one engages in. In the 7th house, Neptune serves to highlight the spiritual bond between them and others, especially their significant others. These individuals have a capacity for seeing the best in people and showing tolerance for their flaws and shortcomings. Their air of mystery can be part of their appeal and allure. Sensitive and intuitive, they can be especially adept at reading their partner’s various moods and mental states.

They however can harbor unrealistic expectations about their relationships. Although they are thoughtful, they can be oblivious about certain practical aspects of the relationship unless they are overtly stated and pointed out to them. They can wax hot and cold and vacillate between periods of warm affection and quiet withdrawal. As a partner, they are very receptive and encouraging. They can sometimes lose themselves in their partner and become addicted to the experience of being with them. They may find it easier to express their affections through poetic means than through direct and matter-of-fact terms.

The Neptune in the 7th house man or woman is someone who can be naive and idealistic with regards to their relationships. They can get wrapped up with romantic fantasies and overlook the practical details that can complicate matters. These individuals tend to get infatuated with an ideal that they project onto their partners. They can be in denial about relationships that are not working out for them. Neptune in the 9th house people can sometimes give their partners too much leeway and make excuses for them when they are not treating them very well or doing what they’re supposed to do.

Individuals with this placement are compelled to seek out what they would consider to be their soulmates. They are not superficial and place far more importance on the quality and character of a potential mate above their physical attributes. For them, the relationships and romantic experiences they have can provide an inspirational fuel for their creativity. Furthermore, they are easy going and quite accommodating to their partners’ needs. They are rarely ever demanding and will often set aside their priorities in order to make their partners happy.

Neptune in the 7th house people dream of the perfect mate but are willing to make the best of what they can get. A spiritual and emotional connection is most important to them anyway. They need to be with someone who isn’t materialistic and superficial. They can however get enticed by superficial qualities that will ultimately leave them unhappy and unfulfilled within their relationship so that is something that ought to be avoided. Spiritual connection is key and they are willing to sacrifice many things for someone that makes them truly happy.

An ideal mate for them is someone who understands them intuitively and can instinctively provide emotional support when they need it. Someone who is tolerant and non judgemental of their faults and flaws. Artistic and creative types can be a particular draw for them. They love to collaborate with creative types and produce something as part of a team or partnership. Individuals who have their Neptune in the 7th house may also have a trusting nature with a tendency for relying on their counsel to manage the practical details of contracts and negotiations.

Neptune in the 7th House Transit:

When Neptune transits the 7th house, it stimulates a penchant for bending over backwards in our relationships. There is an abiding desire to please our partners and make them happy, sometimes at the expense of our own needs. Additionally, there is an element of idealism that may cause us to see our partners and loved ones in an overly positive light as though they could do no wrong. Flaws and problems on their part may be graciously overlooked or minimized. It can contribute to an unrealistic perspective on the state of the relationship and the balance of give and take. We may find ourselves giving too much to our partners without realizing or noticing whether or not they are reciprocating.

During a 7th house Neptune transit, the emotional and psychic link we have with our partners may feel stronger and more connected. We are more in tune with the moods and vibes that our partners experience and feel better able to empathize and address them with understanding and love. We can get wrapped up in our romanticized relationship fantasy and suffer from a lack of objectivity and realistic awareness of what is actually happening. During this period, you may need to occasionally step back and assess things from an objective standpoint. It is important not to overly idealize our partners or put them on a pedestal and give them a pass to carry on problematic behaviors that should otherwise be addressed.

Neptune in the 7th house in Each Zodiac Sign:

Neptune in the 7th house in Aries – In the sign of Aries, Neptune in the 7th house represents an element of hastiness to get hitched or close a good deal. These individuals can be very naive and short sighted when it comes to their relationships. They can quickly fall hard in love and be inspired to do impulsive things like eloping or getting a permanent tattoo. This placement can manifest exciting romances but also regretful romantic misadventures. They need to avoid moving too quickly and letting their fantasies cloud their judgement.

Neptune in the 7th house in Taurus – In the sign of Taurus, Neptune in the 7th house promotes solid romantic partnerships that can last. Sensuality and passion are integral for them and they are eager to find the person who ticks all their romantic checkboxes. They can be very selective but their expectations are unrealistic at times. They for one, may overly rely on gifts and money to express love and smooth things over when there is a rift. They are peaceful and easy going partners and are relatively easy to please. They enjoy the simple pleasures of intimate companionship and are mostly just happy to have someone to hold and cuddle with.

Neptune in the 7th house in Gemini – In the sign of Gemini, Neptune in the 7th house signifies the importance of heartfelt communication. These individuals tend to be very verbal about how they feel and they desire their partners to share in a similar manner. They are perceptive and aware of their partner’s mood and energy changes and take special interest in reading and understanding them well. People with this placement do not take words lightly and any form of verbal affirmation or expression of affection can mean a lot to them. This placement can also indicate a likelihood for marrying their childhood sweetheart.

Neptune in the 7th house in Cancer – In the sign of Cancer, Neptune in the 7th house highlights an emphasis on emotional connection and nurturing from a relationship. As partners, these individuals are very loving and loyal. They value the emotional security and companionship that marriage and intimate relationships can provide. They however, may have a need for constant reassurance of their partner’s love and devotion to them. Moreover, this configuration suggests an individual who seeks relationships that are nurturing and built on trust and an almost psychic-level emotional bond.

Neptune in the 7th house in Leo – In the sign of Leo, Neptune in the 7th house manifests a penchant for seeking validation and self worth through the quality of partnerships and relationship the individual is able to attain. They may develop a somewhat shallow and superficial ideals of what they think they need from a partner. Additionally, they can sometimes overestimate the value of what they bring to the table within a partnership. At the same time, their intentions may be well meaning and underscored by an effort to become worthy of receiving the love and devotion they desire. They are sensitive to rejection and are happy to settle down with almost anyone who makes them feel special and at the center of their universe.

Neptune in the 7th house in Virgo – In the sign of Virgo, Neptune in the 7th house is a placement that can foster a high level of care and attention to the needs of their partner. These individuals are compelled to look after their partners and loved ones in a selfless manner. They are particularly concerned with paying attention to their health and diet. For all their inclination to do for their loved ones, they themselves can be hard to please. People with this placement can be very self conscious and place a lot of pressure on themselves to live up to some ideal or idea of what they think their partner wants.

Neptune in the 7th house in Libra – In the sign of Libra, Neptune in the 7th house is a placement that highlights an emphasis on harmony and appreciation. As partners, these individuals are very reasonable and willing to compromise in order to keep the peace. They avoid direct conflict and seek to understand first before jumping into a defensive stance. They are excellent negotiators and have a special penchant for working things out. They may need to guard against denying their own self interests for the sake of making others happy.

Neptune in the 7th house in Scorpio – In the zodiac sign of Scorpio, Neptune in house 7 fosters a need for passionate communion of mind, body and soul. When it comes to relationships, these individuals seek after someone worthy of being called their soulmate. They are loyal and sometimes possessive. People with this placement may harbor intense fantasies and may enjoy an element of role play within their romantic relationships. Their passion and sensitivity runs deep but they avoid showing too much vulnerability and can be very good at concealing their true feelings.

Neptune in the 7th house in Sagittarius – In the sign of Sagittarius, Neptune in the 7th house bestows a spirit of adventure and fun within relationships. People with this placement are open minded and trusting of their partners. They may seek romantic partnership with individuals who are humorous or exotic to them. It is important that their mates be on the same spiritual or philosophical wavelength. They are not clingy but may have a fondness for spending time with their partners while doing fun and adventurous things like camping or attending Broadway shows.

Neptune in the 7th house in Capricorn – In Capricorn, Neptune in the 7th house indicates a potential for marrying someone who is significantly older or mature. People with this placement may have a preference for traditional relationship and marital values. For them, relationships require work and effort to succeed. They tend to be loyal but can be somewhat cold or lacking in overt displays of affection. They have very simple needs within their relationships and are typically always willing to work hard at being a better partner.

Neptune in the 7th house in Aquarius – In Aquarius, Neptune in the 7th house indicates unconventional ideals about marriage and relationships. Individuals who have this in their charts may not even care for the custom of marriage and are inclined to develop unconventional partnerships that others may not understand or approve of. They have a special need for a partner who can handle their eccentricity and truly understands and appreciates them for who they are. People with this placement may be open to practices that defy many common conventions and mores.

Neptune in the 7th house in Pisces – In Pisces, Neptune in the 7th house represents a desire for true and deeply spiritual companionship. Individuals with this placement are compelled to seek a partner who meshes and resonates with them on a deeper level. They easily lose themselves in their love for their partners. Within their relationships, they are often inspired to do spontaneous and thoughtful things for the ones they love. Under this placement however, there may be an idealistic blindness to the objective state of their relations. They may be subject to disappointments on account of being too naive and trusting.

Neptune in the 7th House Celebrities:

Lady Gaga (March 28th, 1986) Neptune in the 7th house in Capricorn
Amy Winehouse (September 14th, 1983) Neptune in the 7th house in Sagittarius
Mère Teresa (August 26th, 1910) Neptune in the 7th house in cancer
Mariah Carey (March 27th, 1969) Neptune in the 7th house in Scorpio
Audrey Hepburn (May 4th, 1929) Neptune in the 7th house in Leo
Adele (May 5th, 1988) Neptune in the 7th house in Capricorn
Elizabeth II (April 21st, 1926) Neptune in the 7th house in Leo
Lindsay Lohan (July 2nd, 1986) Neptune in the 7th house in Capricorn
Ashton Kutcher (February 7th, 1978) Neptune in the 7th house in Sagittarius
Charlie Chaplin (April 16th, 1889) Neptune in the 7th house in Gemini
Halle Berry (August 14th, 1966) Neptune in the 7th house in Scorpio

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Jetta Moon is an artist, writer and astrology blogger with a passion for creativity and psychology. He is also an enthusiast of MBTI theory and loves to research and write about what he learns. Jetta's background in creative writing has helped develop a unique and insightful perspective on the zodiac, which he shares with readers of this blog.