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The First Impression Others Have of You Based on MBTI Type

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They say you only have one chance to make a first impression. First impressions can have a lasting and powerful influence in shaping our perception of others. If you make a terrible first impression, it can leave a stain that will long after impact how you are perceived no matter what you do afterwards. Here is a look at the type of first impression others may often have of you based on your MBTI personality type. Continue reading

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    How To Break up With A Narcissist or Sociopath

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    Ending a relationship with a malignant narcissist can be difficult and dangerous. Being discarded or rejected by their partners can cause them narcissistic injury which can enrage them and trigger violent situations or malicious payback. Furthermore, narcissists have ways of roping you back to them and deceiving you with their manipulations. It is important therefore that individuals exercise caution and care when planning to emancipate oneself from a relationship with a narcissist. There are also a number of online forums and resources to help victims of narcissistic abuse. Here are 5 approaches to terminate a relationship with an abusive narcissist. Continue reading

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    The art of Seduction – How To Flirt (4 Simple Tips)

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    Many people believe that the art of flirting is something that you either have or you don’t. This isn’t true at all. The art of flirting is something, which can be mastered by anyone with an interest in learning how to flirt. It’s a practice-makes-perfect skill, which is learned from the inside out.

    According to an article from psychologytoday, people flirt for a number of different reasons, such as:

    • To gauge the interest of another person.
    • To push a platonic relationship into a romantic one.
    • To make interactions fun and playful.
    • To manipulate someone into doing a favor.
    • To validate one’s own self esteem and their ability to attract others.
    • To simply get in another person’s pants.

    Everyone masters the art of flirting differently, but there are some basics of the art of flirting which might help you to find the flirt within and bring it out to play.

    1. SUBTLETY IS KEY  

    The first thing to know about the art of flirting is that it works best when not done in an overtly thirsty and desperate way. You don’t need to be the most attractive person in the room and you don’t have to be the smartest, most athletic or most outgoing either. The art of flirting is designed to bring out the wonderful qualities that are unique about you and to let them shine so that others can be drawn to them. In this way, the art of flirting begins from the inside. This is an art of quiet confidence and the more natural and organic you are, the better your chances of success.

    2EYE CONTACT  

    Flirting is an art, that is primarily non-verbal. They say that the eyes are the keys to the soul and you should use yours as a starting point for the art of flirting. Have you ever been glancing around a room, bored and disinterested in what was going on around you when a stranger caught your gaze and held it for a few moments? For most people, this causes the heart to race and the mind to start whirring, wondering what it was about them that caught someone’s attention. People are drawn to others who are attracted to them and you can convey your interest at many levels with the different types of looks you give to people. The art of flirting will incorporate many different types of gazes.

    If you are in a public setting and just want to catch the eye of a stranger, meeting their gaze and holding it for a few seconds then letting it go followed by meeting it again is the best method. But in a face to face interaction, some experts suggest that eye contact should be sustained and direct. “No, you don’t look away. You continue to stare. Gaze deep into their eyes. It doesn’t even matter if you’re paying attention to what they’re saying.” – psychologytodayThis quickly conveys that you are interested in flirting with them and you will be able to tell from their reaction whether or not they share your interest. More aggressive flirting is done through giving the object of flirtation a look, which says, “I am thinking dirty things about you”. Sometimes this is done with a lingering gaze, sometimes with an up-and-down-the-body glance and sometimes with a stare, which suggests that you are hungry and looking to devour them.

    3USING BODY LANGUAGE  

    In addition to eye contact, the art of flirting makes use of other types of body language. Positioning your body in such a manner that shows you are open to communication is crucial to the art of flirting. Touching the other person is also a big part, but it should be done cautiously. You should read the other person’s body language to determine whether they are welcoming the signals you are sending out. You’ll be able to tell if it’s appropriate to touch their arm or lean your leg against theirs while talking. The art of flirting consists of a combination of conveying your intentions while reading the signals of the other person. A successful combination of these two things which stems from a foundation of casual confidence in your own self worth makes the art of flirting enjoyable and fun.

    4. THE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY OF ‘NEGGING’  

    The standard way to ingratiate yourself with an attractive person is by lavishing them with compliments and flattery.  But if the person is really attractive, they’ve probably been approached this way a million times already. To differentiate yourself, take a different tactic and show your interest by poking fun at them and making humorously ambiguous remarks about them. This technique is known as negging and is a way of showing active disinterest by slightly knocking them off their pedestal with a vague or backhanded compliment. It is a form of reverse psychology and when it works, it can turn the tables and make the other person feel invested in the challenge of winning your approval and impressing you.

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    Each MBTI Type When Defending A Loved One

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    Here is a look at the way in which each Myers Briggs personality is likely to protect and defend their loved ones.

    INFJ

    INFJ tries to take an impartial and middle ground stance that is not blatantly biased, but will likely downplay when their loved ones are at fault. Although peace loving and reserved, INFJ can be very firm and assertive when defending people they care about. They are protective like a mother hen willing to risk their lives trying to peck the eyes out of a animal preying on their chickadees.

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    What Each MBTI Type Seeks In A Soulmate

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    The picture of “the perfect mate” differs for each person. Here’s what each MBTI type looks for in a soul mate. Continue reading

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    Why Each Myers-Briggs Type Is Single

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    The single life is a double edged sword. On the one hand, it offers more freedom and control over one’s time and resources but on the other hand, it can be lonely and most people would like someone around to share their lives with. Of course, some people actually prefer being single for any number of reasons. Here is a look at why each MBTI type is likely to be single. Continue reading

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    Why Each Zodiac Sign is Single ♂️♀️?

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    Why You’re Single Based on Zodiac Sign 
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    One of the most amazing things about being single is that if you want love, it feels like you’ll be forever alone. If you’re with someone, you may have forgotten what it’s like to be without your special someone (but chances are that you’ve fantasized about it at least once). Each sign is unique in how they manage to keep from entering into a long-term relationship. Continue reading

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    How Each Zodiac Sign Shows They Care

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    While we may look to Hallmark or love languages to tell us how people express their care, there’s actually more variety to love and nurturing than meets the eye. All of us have our own unique way of expressing love that is a mix our personalities and our own needs. In fact, each sign of the zodiac expresses care in a unique way. Continue reading

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    Why Each Zodiac Sign Cheats

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    Love hurts. In a romantic relationship, commitment is everything and when one lover proves unfaithful, the damage it causes may be irreparable. Some relationships can survive the infidelity and move past it while others may even allow for it under certain conditions. Here is a breakdown of what likely causes each zodiac sign to cheat on their main squeeze. Continue reading

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    Pisces Compatibility With Each Zodiac Sign (love and friendship)

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    Pisces Compatibility As a Friend and Lover

    Dreamy Pisces is the chameleon of the zodiac. They can get along well with just about anyone, at least in the beginning. They give others the benefit of the doubt, sometimes mistaking sympathy for love. Read on to find out if Pisces is your BBF or dream lover, or just a dream: Continue reading

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    What Each Zodiac Sign Craves In A Relationship

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    It may be easy to tell what each astrological sign finds attractive. You can use that to your advantage if you only want to hold someone’s attention for a little while. If you really want to seduce, you have to understand what someone craves. What do they truly want, deep down, that drives them to swipe right, to make a fool of themselves over and over again until they finally meet The One? They may not tell you. They may not even really know how to tell you what they long for, and you probably can’t tell from texting or even talking on a first date, either. However, knowing what they crave (and if you’re willing deliver) can be the difference between creating a spark that fizzles out or of fanning the flames of passion. Continue reading

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    What Each MBTI Type Does When They Have A Crush

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    With Valentine’s day just around the corner, now may be a great time to confess your undying love for someone you’re with or want to be with. Valentine’s Day is an especially opportune occasion for people who want to confront their crush. Here is a look at what each Myers-Briggs type is likely to do when they are crazy in love with someone.

    INFJ

    Less mature INFJs who have not yet adequately developed their Fe for whatever reason may have a much stronger fear of getting hurt or rejected. As introverts, they may sometimes withdraw from their extraverted function and get stuck in a Ni/Ti loop of over analyzing a situation and fixating on what could go wrong. From afar, INFJs have a propensity for idealizing the object of their enamorment only to be disappointed by the truth. INFJs may initially try to mask their feelings and feel the person out first so as not to embarrass themselves. They’ll engage them and try to connect or do thoughtful things in the hopes that the other person will get the hint. Sometimes INFJs procrastinate and wait too long to make their move. By the time they feel prepared enough to take action, the other person is already beyond reach. Continue reading

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    What Every Myers-Briggs Type Wants Most From Others

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    We all want something from others. Be it respect, love, attention or money, here is a look at what each Myers-Briggs likely wants most from other people.

    INFJ

    INFJs desire understanding and moral support from others. INFJs can sometimes feel as though they live on a remote island of emotions that only a few trusted people are allowed to visit. This need to conceal parts of themselves for fear of judgement can make them feel isolated when deep down they would like to be able share themselves more authentically. The problem is, people sometimes don’t know how to relate to them and instead criticize or misinterpret their intentions. INFJs wish other people could understand them the way they understand others.

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    5 Reasons Why INFJs fall for INTPs

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    The INFJ-INTP Golden Couple

    [dropcap]D[/dropcap]espite what type theories might suggest, I believe just about any pair of MBTI personalities have a fighting chance at forming a happy relationship. INTJs for example, are supposedly least compatible with Artisans (SPs) and Guardians (SJs) but a self proclaimed INTJ Youtuber named Ben has testified to being happily married to an ISFJ. Romantic chemistry and compatibility is a person-to-person matter and so the MBTI hopefully will not prevent individuals from keeping an open mind. Still, type theory can be a helpful tool in pointing us to the personality types with the most positive prospects.

    The INFJ INTP romance could be one such pairing that holds promise. Do INFJ and INTP get along? By David Keirsey’s estimation, sure. Keirsey, author of “Please Understand Me” and “Please Understand Me II” believed that Idealists and Rationals get along well due to their shared “N” perceiving preference. These two temperament groups are preoccupied with abstraction, metaphor and creativity and this impacts the way they relate with others and communicate and communication is central to any great relationship.

    Whether it is an INFJ female with INTP male, or INFJ male with INTP female (or whatever way you wanna match it), here is a look at 5 aspects of the INFJ-INTP relationship that might answer the question: Why is INFJ and INTP the golden pair?

    [dropcap]1[/dropcap] INFJ Appreciates The INTP Commitment To Principles

    INFJs being the shrewd judges of character they are, will likely admire the INTP’s noble qualities such as their intellectual integrity, their unrelenting quest for truth and their honesty. Despite their overall candor, INTPs tend to be rather polite and tactful in how they express themselves. Although their inferior Fe makes them something of a social misfit, it still allows them to appreciate some measure of social etiquette in the service of avoiding unnecessary discord with others. INTPs will likely develop principles that govern the way they engage with people – a “rules of engagement” so to speak. It is likely that at some point early in their lives INTPs may have worked out coping mechanisms to deal with people in ways that make sense to them while still being true to themselves. These principles will undoubtedly be predicated on fairness and objectivity and may be something INFJ notices and appreciates.

    [dropcap]2[/dropcap] INFJ And INTP Both Tend To Be Night Owls

    Although, INFJs are more disposed to following more structured lifestyles than the INTP, they nonetheless share with them, a taste for the night life. As introverted intuitive types, both the INTP and INFJ will likely agree that night time just makes everything better. When dusk falls, the INFJ and INTP pair will enjoy staying up doing what they like to do together like watching movies, gaming and having deep conversations about things they find interesting. Their creative juices are likely to be most active during the evening hours where they are bound to get up to all kinds of introverted fun around the time when early bird-inclined personalities (like maybe ISFJ for example) begin to peter out.

    [dropcap]3[/dropcap] INFJ Is A Great Sounding Board For INTP

    Talking about their ideas is something INTPs like to do because the exercise of finding the right words to clearly articulate their message out loud helps reinforce the clarity of it in their own minds as well as help them discover any flaws or holes in their thinking. INFJs are good conversation partners for INTP because they are excellent listeners and one of the types whose eyes won’t glaze over when INTP goes into their involuted and sometimes hard-to-follow streams of thought.

    INTP likes to jump around connecting one idea with another and then suddenly in a leap of intuition, veers off into what appears to be a non-sequitur to the person listening but actually follows a meaningful connection the INTP may have to explain. INFJ is great because they will entertain the topics that INTP broaches and follow it to it’s natural conclusion without trying to change the subject. Because of their shared “N”, they have the potential for playing off each other nicely in conversation with a good back-and-forth rapport that feels natural and easy.

    [dropcap]4[/dropcap] INFJs Can Provide The Love and Understanding INTPs Secretly Desire

    INTP’s trouble with intimacy stems from their persistent fear of rejection. They are painfully aware of their awkwardness in this arena and often shy away from opportunities to give or receive affection if they feel pressure. INFJ is able to put INTPs at ease with their calm soothing manner of speaking and sympathetic ear. They make INTP feel protected and understood. INFJ’s have Ti as their auxiliary function and this allows them to share a desire to understand rather than judge or condemn aspects of INTP that may baffle or annoy them.

    INFJ-INTP dating may initially face certain problems or challenges until INTP can lower their guard and give INFJ the intimacy they desire. Deep down INTP wants to express that part of themselves because beneath their reserved demeanor lay intense emotions that they try to keep under rational control. It is worth noting that in a Thoughtcatalog love language survey, INFJs and INTPs reported the same love language preferences on average with physical affection ranking as the 3rd most popular love language of these two types.

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    INFJ INTP Love Languages – Thoughtcatalog.com

    [dropcap]5[/dropcap] INTPs Are Funny (Both Intentionally and Unintentionally)

    INTP absent-mindedness and social gaffes can be a source of comedy in itself, but INTPs also tend to have a smart and clever sense of humor that often involves punny quips and well placed one-liners. They can be intentionally funny and their sense of humor promises to be unusual and irreverent. INTPs observe a great deal of behavior in others that they regard as absurd. They are good at mocking the things that vex them and poking holes in it, exposing the ridiculousness with satirical and sarcastic hyperbole (a la Larry David).

    INTP

    Most Important Aspects

    • mutual commitment
    • fidelity
    • mutual support
    • being listened to
    • humor
    • intellectual stimulation
    • companionship

    Least Important Aspects

    • financial security
    • shared religious beliefs
    • spiritual connection
    • security
    • similar parenting styles

    INFJ

    Most Important Aspects

    • mutual support
    • mutual commitment
    • being listened to
    • fidelity
    • intimacy
    • companionship
    • shared values

    Least Important Aspects

    • shared religious beliefs
    • shared interests
    • sexual compatibility
    • spiritual connection
    • similar parenting styles

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    Which MBTI Type Is Most Likely To Cheat?

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    Which MBTI Type is the biggest cheater?

    [dropcap]A[/dropcap]side from open marriages and other polyamorous relationships, most romantic partnerships are formed under terms of sexual and emotional exclusivity. Faithfulness in a relationship is generally the one most hallowed tenet in a monogamous arrangement and when it is breached, a line is crossed that will often spell the death of the union.

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