INTJ ENFJ Compatibility
Like the ENTJ, ENFJs like to take the lead and they are generally very competent in this respect. As a romantic partner to the INTJ, they act as the public face for the relationship, managing the social affairs and public agenda of the couple. They may take initiative in proposing activities for bonding and connecting with each other, such as couple’s therapy, or romantic getaways. ENFJs have a lot of love to give and sometimes the INTJ may feel that they spread to much of it to other people. The INTJ may question how devoted to them the ENFJ is but the ENFJ will likely be able to reassure them with their persuasive and characteristic charm.
The INTJ ENFJ relationship match may provide satisfying conversation for the INTJ who notoriously despises shallow small talk. Both types think big and have a long view focus that transcends the limitations of current reality. They share vision and both possess their own set of principles. However, the ENFJ acquires much of their values from the collective groups with which they identify. They want harmony and will take up causes that fight against unfairness and threats to humanity as a whole and this can be extended to animals and nature as well (however that may be more of an INFP thing).
The ENFJ may desire more connection and intimacy than what the INTJ is inclined to give and the ENFJ may view the INTJ’s need for solitude to be somewhat selfish. According to the Love Language survey posted on Thoughtcatalog, INTJ and ENFJ types appear to value quality time highly. So despite their differing extraverted/introverted needs they may be willing to find the time to be together and build on the bond they share.
INTJ ENFJ Relationship Problems
The INTJ ENFJ relationship is likely to face some challenges in terms of perspectives. The INTJ directs their focus on objects and systems whereas the ENFJ focuses on teaching people and bringing humanity together through what they do. The INTJ may appreciate and even admire the ENFJ’s capacity for championing positive and noble ideals, but their different focus may pull them in a direction that cannot accommodate the ENFJ’s people-centric interests. ENFJs want to be around people a lot more than INTJs do and this is something they might have to work out amongst themselves.
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