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Jhoon is a writer and artist who likes to study astrology and psychology. Astroligion.com was launched in 2016 with a focus on astrology but has since expanded to include the MBTI and other topics. This site has provided Jhoon a great incentive to research and learn more about many subjects of personal interest.

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[dropcap]S[/dropcap]ooner or later, everyone lands themselves in a bit of hot water in one form or another. In many cases, we are each to blame for our own misfortunes. The types of trouble we get into will vary from person to person but will likely correlate positively with Myers Briggs typology. Here are some of the deviant activities each Myers Briggs type will likely be guilty of.

ISTP

[dropcap]L[/dropcap]ike INTPs, ISTPs also want to know how things work but not in regards to concepts and theories but rather that of concrete physical objects. ISTPs therefore may find themselves in trouble when their desire to figure out what’s in the “secret sauce” turns into a sticky situation. Because of their ability to reverse engineer, ISTPs can sometimes use this skill to hack into things or gain access to things for which they are not granted permission. Since ISTPs are known to be something of mavericks, they may have no qualms about defying inconvenient laws or social mores if they can get away with it.

ISTPs can also be clever pranksters able to devise elaborate gags ranging from childish to borderline cruel. Their physical dexterity and knowledge of human behavior allows them to play tricks on unsuspecting victims. They likely derive great amusement out of seeing others fall into their traps like a fly in spider’s web. If they’re not careful, their harmless fun can backfire and end up burning them in a bittersweet twist of poetic justice.

ISFP

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]SFPs are nice, well meaning folks but they can also get caught up in misguided causes and woo woo metaphysics. They’re not the greatest critical thinkers and book learnin’ ain’t so appealin’. They want experiences -and lots of them. They can have a quirky odd ball sense of humor that others may not appreciate or even be offended by and like Huck Finn, they can get up to all kinds of shenanigans.

ISFPs can be victims of their own delusions blinded by a highly subjective existential idealism. For fun, they may dabble in the occult or satanism, maybe playing pranks on the local churches in their area. Their attention-seeking side can lead them to be highly impulsive and histrionic doing strange things for shock value just to see the reactions from people. They can rub people the wrong way and even infuriate those who don’t understand ISFP’s airy chicanery.

ESTP

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]STPs by their very nature attract trouble, and when they can’t find any, they create it themselves. They can be foolhardy, risk-taking knuckleheads who act without thinking (but they do think). They are impatient and action oriented and arrogant enough to believe that they can solve anything and do it better than others. This brazen arrogance is probably what engenders the most ire in others towards the ESTP. They cannot help it though, nor would they apologize for it. Sooner or later, ESTPs will be humbled in spectacular fashion by epic failure. Tis’ but a scratch for them though because their incorrigible spirit will rebound quicklyenough to seize a new opportunity.

ESTPs can be bullies who are not afraid to instigate conflict when they feel somehow disrespected or infringed upon. They likely enjoy the drama because at heart they are thrill seekers who feel most alive when engaged in a struggle fighting for something. They want to compete, they want to win and they want to be the biggest kid on the block. One of their biggest lessons in life is to learn how to be a gracious loser because even they can’t win them all.

ESFP

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]SFPs are charming little buggers who love being showered with attention and affection. But behind their enchanting smiles, can be a conniving con-man/woman who knows what buttons to push to get what they want. ESFPs can also be hedonistic sensation seekers who live for the moment, extracting as much excitement and fun as they can. As a result, they can be tempted to become very immoderate in their debauchery and easily spin out of control. They can fall down the rabbit hole of addiction and dangerous self destructive behavior.

ESFPs love to feel good and they have a weak spot for sensual pleasures and instant gratification. They defy the boundaries of acceptable behavior, and enjoy shocking and impressing people with their antics and provocative hi-jinks. Their impulsive and thrill seeking tendencies will no doubt lead to many flirts with disaster. Their actions can appear very reckless at times to the point that people wonder whether they’ve lost their minds.

ISTJ

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]STJs are reputed as dutiful law-abiding individuals with little interest in Machiavellian exploits and mischievous schemes. Therefore ISTJs are righteous angels of all that is good and perfect, right? Not so fast. While ISTJs may seem like model citizens on paper, and in many cases they are, they may get themselves in trouble with insensitive and overly blunt remarks. They can often disregard the need for tact in favor of an almost sadistically heavy-handed criticism of others. Their stubbornness can also earn them unpopularity with others especially subordinates.

Their unapologetically harsh words can make them the object of controversy and social condemnation. They can be arrogant to such an extent that they believe they know what is best and feel justified in violating rules or laws deeming it a necessary evil. In other words they can deem themselves as above the law and if put in positions of power ISTJs may become, in worst case scenarios, insufferable, self-righteous dictators.

ISFJ

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]SFJs are emotional manipulators who can turn people against them once others catch on to ISFJ’s tricks. They take everything personal and can be both emotionally fragile and volatile. They can push the bounds of other’s patience with their need for appreciation, validation and shows of support from loved ones. To get what they want, they may extend sickingly sweet gestures such as unsolicited gifts and dumb compliments to butter up their victim so they become malleable putty in their hands. This is what the FBI calls “grooming”. 

ISFJs also enjoy gossip much like the ESFJ does. They love nothing more than discussing other people’s affairs and commenting on what they do. They may be guilty of rumor mongering and spreading half truths because they tend to believe a lot of the fake news they hear and in turn share it with other people like a sad adult game of telephone. 

ESTJ

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]STJs can be unaware or uncaring of how they come across to others. They have a propensity for bullying people into behaving a certain way in the name of enforcing some principle. They can be very stubborn and dismissive of input from others without really considering it. Their willpower is formidable and once they’ve set their mind, others will find it a near impossible task to dissuade them.

ESTJs may have difficulty communicating their thoughts and feelings to others and also have difficulty understanding the importance of considering people’s feelings, and trying to meet their emotional needs. Because of their capacity to hold grudges, ESTJs can have difficulty forgiving people and are not above seeking out revenge. Their tempers can be intense and quick and they can be highly controlling towards others. They may be unable to place value on individual life and unable to see the long-term impact of their behavior.

ESFJ

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]SFJs try to be everything to everyone and to their credit, are genuinely friendly and accepting of most people. This however this can backfire once others observe the lack of depth behind their persona. Their desire for status fuels a lot of their behavior and consequently can make their apparent congeniality seem disingenuous. They are susceptible towards following the crowd and doing things just to gain acceptance and feel included.

ESFJs are liable to engage in gossip and be two-faced even towards those in their inner circle. Acting as a double agent for the sake of maintaining conflicting relationships with conflicting interests they may end up compromising both. Because they are averse to conflict, they avoid making criticisms of others directly but instead voice them to their most trusted counsel. Their loyalties can be shifty and their principles rather superficial.

INTP

[dropcap]C[/dropcap]uriosity may have killed the cat, but that won’t deter an INTP from investigating! INTPs question everything and may inadvertently rub others the wrongest of ways with their sometimes invasive inquiries. Their questions may be seen as an affront by many people while also raising their suspicions. People may view the INTP as being rude or prying into business in which they ought  not be concerned. Others may have a  difficulty understanding the nature of INTP’s pure and noble desire to understand things simply for their own sake. Understanding the “why” and the “how” is very important to them but individuals in positions of power may view this as challenges to their authority. 

INTPs, though typically not inclined to be in places or among people where they are not wanted, may nonetheless become an interloper when their single-minded information-seeking leads them to restricted territory. Their love of the unknown and thirst for secrets can compel them to trespass or tamper with things forbidden. They are like meddlesome cartoon detectives who won’t rest until they’ve gotten to the bottom of the matter. In fact, every INTP should have their own canine sidekick like Rin Tin Tin or Scooby Doo.

INTJ

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]NTJs have notions and premonitions that they would like to test out and sometimes do so at the expense of others. They may exploit people like pawns to advance their selfish agenda or manipulate and brainwash them into their strange doomsday cult. INTJ’s brooding narcissism can lead them to form an unhealthily low regard for others as peons and pissants. As such, the INTJ will feel morally justified in expending them much like the character Col. Jessup did in A Few Good Men.

Seriously though, INTJs are no more malevolent than other personality types. Those INTJs with a pronounced intellectual arrogance however will run short on patience when among the more vapid, superficial people of the world. They may earn themselves a reputation for their scathing criticisms lobbied against lay people and authority figures alike. This is because INTJs do not value symbols of status or rank but rather merit and competency. Others will be intimidated or impressed but INTJs will nonetheless likely end up facing consequences for challenging the status quo.

It’s a long running joke that INTJs are melancholy misanthropes with a disdain for humanity but it’s not a joke. Just check this INTJ out:

ENTP

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]NTPs can be highly unreliable in regards to important matters of responsibility. Their tendency towards forgetfulness often results in self sustained headaches such late payments and other problems due to unpreparedness. ENTPs are excellent at generating a multitude of ideas but not as great at actualizing them. They often have difficulty finishing the projects and assignments on which they’ve started.

ENTPs can irritate others with their flippant and jocular attitude. It’s as though they don’t take anything seriously enough to stick with and follow through on. Their skill at playing devil’s advocate compels them to get into frivolous arguments and debates just to see where they can take it. For them it is fun, but for others more emotionally involved in their arguments, they can get their feelings hurt and become deeply offended. ENTP’s big mouths can get them into altercations that go from verbal to physical.

ENTJ

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]NTJs are big, bold and ballsy. Even before they gain any type of power or standing in the world, they can act as though they are the ordained kings and queens of their friends and family. They are possessed with energy and enthusiasm which gives them an aura of authoritative charisma that is difficult for others to resist. They seem to have a plan and know what to do and how to do it and so others follow them like baby ducklings trailing their mother. ENTJs know how to organize people, but in the throes of their ambition they can get ahead of themselves acting like an arrogant dictator.

Others can be put off by ENTJs arrogance and excessive competitiveness. At their worse, ENTJs can be treacherous back stabbers looking out for their own self interests. This ruthless form of ambition can overtake an ENTJ without a strong moral compass. Consequently in their path to success, they will have created a load of stress and paranoia down the road from all the enemies they made along the way.

INFP

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]NFPs for the most part, avoid trouble. They’re conflict averse so they don’t want no beef. Problem is, they can take a lot of things personally and some can internalize perceived slights to the point they become ticking time bombs. This not to say that they will necessarily turn into the next Elliot Roger, or Ted Krazinski but the intensity of their resentment can lead them to erupt in a sudden firestorm of focused rage no one saw coming.

INFP’s can be emotionally immature about criticism from others. It is probably harder for INFPs than other types to brush aside or ignore negative remarks from people. It can either deflate their self esteem or trigger a petulant conniption. Unless they were fortunate enough to have non-controlling, tactful parents, they will likely develop a defiant rebellious relationship with them. They likely get into trouble for back-talking and being a smart-alek.

INFJ

[dropcap]I[/dropcap]NFJs can get into trouble with their compulsion to provide unsolicited advice to others. It can be tough for them to see people struggle with basic decisions like what to eat and where to park . This is why an INFJ will step in to help make a decision, not just out of the goodness of their heart, but because they can’t stand the trivial indecision.

INFJs can be so involved in other people’s lives that their understanding of themselves will be lagging. They enjoy counseling people and will spend days studying them while subconsciously absorbing their characteristics and mimicking them. INFJs want to help and their altruistic nature can lead them to give money at their own expense. INFJs aren’t going to lose any sleep over charitable financial sacrifices… until it sinks in later that they’re broke.

ENFP

[dropcap]E[/dropcap]NFP’s  openess to trying things sometimes leads to poor or ill-advised decisions. While it’s good for them to have people around that are spontaneous and open to experimenting like they are, ENFPs also need someone who can tell them when something might be a bad idea. They need someone who straddles the divide, and can redirect the ENFP away from destructive behavior.

ENFPs are also comfortable with their body and bodily functions. They would probably love to be naked all the time even around embarrassed house mates. When the ENFP is passionate about something, they may have a tendency to take over entire discussions making it difficult for fellow interlocutors to get a word in edgewise. The ENFP also has a really hard time censoring themselves. They can hardly resist the urge to call people out and speak their mind at the expense of ruffling some feathers.

ENFJ

[dropcap]T[/dropcap]he ENFJ has a tough time cutting toxic people out of their lives when they need to. They are such people pleasers that it can interfere with their ability to be themselves.Because ENFJs have a capacity to get along with anyone, they have an openness to dating just about any type. Not every type is good for the ENFJ, however, and ENFJs have a really hard time leaving unhealthy relationships.

At times, the ENFJ gets depressed and unsure what to do and an ENFJ that goes off the rails can be a total train wreck. Drunken hysteria, crying, excessive introspection, and desperate clinging on to others. ENFJs can become total psychopaths if not matured properly. If they’re aligning with people who are on the dark side, the ENFJ can be conditioned to be a total clueless a-hole.

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    MBTI Stress

    [dropcap]M[/dropcap]ounting stress and pressure can lead to a complete and epic unraveling of our psychological fabric that gives way to a side of ourselves that others despise. How we respond to that stress and the types of stress we are sensitive to will vary from person to person. In the Myers Briggs type theory, each personality type manifests signs of stress in ways particular to them and the sources and causes of it will differ as well. Although there are life conditions that everyone finds to be stressful, the stress responses of some types can be triggered by events and circumstances that a different type may experience as desirable and energizing.

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    INTP

    [dropcap]U[/dropcap]nder extreme stress, INTPs will become hyper critical of other’s expectations and demands, while simultaneously craving their affection and appreciation. INTP’s thoughts will grow increasingly complicated and disconnected from objective reality, instead focusing on largely subjective and paranoid interpretations of the events occurring around them. Frustrations will lead INTPs to develop various phobias and psychosomatic fears, becoming uncharacteristically concerned with their physical health and the effect that their environment can have on it

    When stressed out, INTP’s intense emotions will come to the surface. Major triggers for this include having their need for space and introversion violated and disrespected (ex. others intruding on their space and uninvited visitors), or having their principles and convictions trampled on. Under these circumstances, INTPs will likely find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Feeling.  At this point, INTPs are likely to behave completely out of character.  They will become more emotionally engaged and obsessed with their logic and will be more argumentative, while at the same time becoming increasingly disorganized and forgetful of mundane matters. INTPs may become hypersensitive and take insignificant details and remarks more personally than normal. They may develop the belief that others dislike or hate them, and they may become uncharacteristically emotional and bitter.


    Stressors:


    • Being boxed in and constrained by responsibilities
    • Being forced to do un-challenging and repetitive work
    • Working with incompetent, chatty people
    • Teamwork
    • Supervising others and monitoring their work
    • Too much extraverting
    • Emotionally charged situations
    • Being underappreciated for their abilities and contribution
    • People invading their space
    • INTP money issues

    Stress Response:


    • Withdrawal and quietness; increased irritability
    • Excessive thinking and cogitating with emphasis on logic; paralysis of analysis
    • Intellectually combative and increasingly insensitive to emotional climate
    • Emotional outbursts
    • Feelings of not being liked or appreciated
    • Forgetfulness, disorganization, confusion
    • Passive aggressiveness
    • Sarcastic and mean remarks
    • Vagueness, distractibility, disorganization



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    INTJ

    Typically INTJ’s get peeved and discontented in environments where their intellectual prowess is not valued or appreciated. INTJs get drained in places full of noisy, boisterous people and when being forced to extravert themselves too much with little to no “alone time” to replenish their energy.  INTJs will also have little patience when working with people they deem to be lazy and incompetent. They quickly tire of tasks that require ample attention to detail with specific repetitive procedures and methods.

    INTJs are accustomed to living in their internal world at the expense of their physical and emotional needs. Romantic feelings can take them by surprise and destabilize their psychological balance. Because they feel their emotional impulses threaten their sense of self-control they often resort to denial of their existence and attempt to rationalize their emotions with logic and principles that do not even apply.


    Stressors:


    • Noisy boisterous environments
    • Lazy incompetent co-workers
    • Meticulous robotic work
    • New environments
    • Having to change their plans
    • Too much focus on the present
    • Not enough time to think ahead

    Stress Response:


    • Withdraw into the inner world of  images and possibilities; become quiet
    • Stubbornness and increased irritability
    • Become very busy; focus on low priority tasks
    • Become obsessively concerned with detail;paralysis of  analysis
    • Angry and critical at people and/or things
    • Over focused on gratifying the senses
    • Elitism; “I know everything, you know nothing”
    • Overdoing sensory activities like drinking, cleaning, working out etc.
    • Intense anger
    • INTJ depression



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    ENTP

    In most cases, ENTPs will be averse to environments wherever creativity is restricted or stifled.  ENTPs become stressed when they are deprived of external stimulation, denied autonomy, or are forced to commit themselves to binding decisions for which they have little wiggle room. They are also stressed by environments that do not appreciate their originality and clever ideas.

    When stressed, ENTPs will become flighty and will start to look for the nearest exit for fear that their freedom is at stake. They become impulsive and coquettish and justify their behavior so as to avoid perceived entrapment. ENTPs become increasingly defiant as pressure and responsibilities mount while at the same becoming ever more dependent on others to help them with managing various aspects of their duties.


    Stressors:


    • Lack of external stimulus
    • Feeling restricted and controlled
    • Having their creativity stifled
    • Being forced to make long term decisions
    • Working with individuals they view as incompetent
    • Having their cleverness go unappreciated
    • Having their principles violated
    • Working with mundane details
    • Overextending themselves

    Stress Response:


    • Excessive flow of  exciting new ideas without evaluation
    • Increased impatience, irritability, frankness, insensitivity, and debating
    • Over-involvement in numerous activities; stretched thin
    • Become obsessive, picky, and compulsive
    • Withdrawal, immobility, depression
    • Excessive and exaggerated worry about bodily sensations
    • Anxiety
    • Irritability, upset about insignificant things
    • Self-deprecation



    ENTJ

    When experiencing stress, ENTJs may fall “under the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Feeling. This may emerge in response to intense emotions stemming from guilt over criticism of others, or having their strong values and/or feelings violated. When this happens, ENTJs are likely to exhibit behavior that is unlike them including uncharacteristic emotional outbursts and isolating themselves away from others while they try to restore control over their psychological balance.

    ENTJs are inclined to believe that the source of their distress lies outside of themselves and therefore they’re quick to blames others for their problems. They perceive other people as being needy and illogical, and also systems and organizations as inefficient and hindering. Everything and everyone seems to be holding them back, therefore they feel compelled to take matters into their own hands and set things right.


    Stressors:


    • Disruptions to their plans.
    • A Lack of results despite their hard efforts
    • Feeling incompetent
    • Lazy unmotivated people
    • Being in a subordinate roles
    • Inability to realize their goals
    • Hypersensitive emotional people
    • Feelings of guilt for criticizing others
    • Having their values and principles violated
    • Idleness and wasting of time.
    • Missed opportunities

    Stress Response:


    • Excessive criticism; categorical negative judgments about people and events
    • Increased irritability, sense of  pressure and anxiety, impatience, and insensitivity
    • Increasing tunnel vision and difficulty listening to input from others
    • Feeling out of  control; distress at possibly losing control
    • Strong emotional outbursts; feelings of vulnerability; withdrawal
    • Excessive sensitivity to feeling alone, left out, unappreciated
    • Sadism, not caring or not being aware when crushing other people’s feelings
    • Viewing others as weak
    • Closed mindedness, not willing to accept any alternatives



    INFP

    When experiencing stress overload, which may come from a gross or frequent violation of their deeply held values, spending time in an emotionally toxic and/or excessively critical environment, or worrying that they are about to lose someone or something (relationship, task, etc.) close to them, INFPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Thinking.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character.

    INFPs usually dislike conflict and are prone to acting in a passive-aggressive way when they experience frustration or dissatisfaction. They are deeply dedicated to being their ‘true selves’, to the extent that they will avoid any people or situations that do not fit in with their inner value system, tending to become rather intolerant and hard to please. As stress increases, they may become extremely whimsical and stubborn, insisting on acting as they feel but ignoring the logical consequences and implications of their actions.


    Stressors:


    • Inflexible schedules and routines
    • Violations of their values
    • Being in rowdy boisterous environments
    • Extraverting themselves too much
    • small talk and glib exchanges
    • disingenuous people
    • restrictions to their creativity
    • being tied down and working on highly detailed tasks

    Stress Response:


    • Withdraw, become preoccupied; begin noticing difficulty sleeping and increased eating
    • Become hypersensitive to imagined slights
    • Avoid or put off  actions that might create discomfort or conflict
    • Become extremely critical of  others
    • May find self  or others to be terribly incompetent
    • Exaggerated and impulsive directing or organizing of  environment or others
    • Hopelessness, sadness
    • Martyr-like attitude
    • Loss of confidence and motivation



    INFJ

    When faced with stress overload, which may come from dealing with unfamiliar environments with overwhelming amounts of details, having to extravert too much or in uncomfortable ways, or having their well settled plans disrupted, INFJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Sensing.  In this state, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character.  This may include over doing it on the pleasures of the senses by binge-eating, over-exercising, buying lots of useless items, etc..

    INFJs tend to withdraw from reality into a fantasy world of their own, which gradually gains importance as they become dissatisfied with their real life and the people in it. While fulfilling the demands of their outer commitments, they harbor secret criticism and the feeling that their imaginary world and the characters that inhabit it are more important than the actual people in their lives.


    Stressors:


    • discord in their relationships
    • violations of their values
    • excessive extraverting
    • Being amongst close-minded people
    • Feeling under appreciated and under-valued
    • Adjusting to new environments
    • disruptions to their plans
    • Lack of direction and purpose
    • Disharmony and conflict

    Stress Response:


    • Withdraw into the inner world of  images and possibilities; become quiet
    • Moodiness and perfectionism
    • Become very busy; focus on low priority tasks
    • Become obsessively concerned with detail; feeling out of  control
    • Angry and critical at people and/or things
    • Over focused on gratifying the senses
    • Elitism; “I know everything, you know nothing”
    • Overdoing sensory activities like drinking, cleaning, working out etc.
    • Intense anger



    ENFP

    When confronted with stressful situations, which may come from working in environments where their values are violated, having to focus for long periods of time on mundane details, and good old fashion exhaustion (often caused by overextending oneself), ENFPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Sensing.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character such as splitting hairs over petty details and a reluctance to try anything new. This may include a reduced creativity and withdrawing into themselves and becoming depressed.

    ENFPs in distress tend to feel overloaded and overwhelmed by too much to do. They feel they’re trying to help others and make their lives better but their efforts are unappreciated and there are always more expectations and demands. In such situations, ENFPs are likely to start shirking their responsibilities, forgetting their appointments or being late for the deadlines.


    Stressors:


    • micromanaging and being micromanaged
    • being forced to focus on the here and now
    • having to follow restrictive regimens and routines
    • not being allowed to be creative
    • lack of external stimulus
    • fulfilling deadlines
    • Criticism
    • Lack of appreciation
    • Working within a highly structured, rigid, detail-oriented environment
    • Being required to do something that violates your values
    • Feeling distrusted, disrespected, ignored, not recognized
    • Receiving criticism about yourself or what you have created
    • Finding that you are unable to fulfill the multiple demands you have taken on yourself

    Stress Response:


    • Excessive flow of  exciting new ideas without evaluation
    • Increasing disorganization, impatience, and forgetfulness
    • Over-involvement in numerous activities;stretched thin
    • Become obsessive, picky, and compulsive
    • Withdrawal and isolation with depression
    • Excessive and exaggerated worry about bodily sensations
    • Anxiety
    • Irritability, upset about insignificant things
    • Self-deprecation
    • Obsessing about irrelevant details and facts
    • Focusing excessively on their body, imagining that they have some dire illness
    • Being irritable, snappish, impatient
    • Feeling depressed, hopeless; withdrawing
    • Failing to see any possibilities beyond their current, dismal reality
    • Being pessimistic and incapable of seeing the big picture
    • Engaging in inflexible, rigid thinking



    ENFJ

    When faced with stress overload, which may come from being expected to conform with something that goes against their values, spending time in an emotionally toxic, combative, and/or excessively critical environment, or being in an environment where there is a basic lack of trust between individuals, ENFJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Thinking.  When this occurs, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character such as exhibiting indecision and excessive procrastination and overthinking.  They may also lash out at others, and become overly critical of mistakes committed by both themselves and others.

    ENFJs are likely to start feeling somewhat disappointed with the relationships they worked so hard to build. They experience a lack of enthusiasm and passion about the people around them and as a consequence they feel guilty about it, believing that they’re losing themselves and letting down their loved ones. Acutely concerned with being seen as empathetic, loving people and highly sensitive to rejection and criticism, they strive to maintain appearances even though deep inside they may feel rather joyless.


    Stressors:


    • disharmony
    • obstructions to their plans
    • deadlines
    • intense environments and working conditions
    • boring repetitive tasks
    • having to conform and go against their standards
    • absorbing other people’s stress
    • Being misunderstood or mistrusted
    • fear of not living up to their potential

    Stress Response:


    • Over attentive to others’ feelings—trying to make things “right” with others or trying to fix others’ perceived difficulties
    • Inflexibility and increasing difficulty seeing/trying new approaches
    • Begin noticing physical symptoms of stress;appetite disturbances
    • Extreme criticism, even condemnation, of others based on small events
    • Black-and-white thinking, confusion, needing assurance of  the “one” right answer
    • Withdrawal, criticism of  self, lack of  concern for your impact on others
    • Feeling unappreciated, taken for granted
    • General sadness, withdrawal
    • Frequent mood swings



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    ISFJ

    When laden with stress overload, which may come from dealing with unfamiliar territory and uncertain futures, dealing with others who seem to work outside of the current reality, or having to overuse their type by being expected to constantly act as “the responsible one”, ISFJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Intuition.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character such as perceiving slights and offenses that are more imagined than actual.  They may also become at odds with the facts and details they normally depend on. to the extent such details are interpreted as being ominous.

    ISFJs have the tendency to lose themselves in emotional and moral commitments, seeing themselves as indispensable to and intrinsic part of the cause they’ve identified with. At this point they can become self-sacrificing martyrs whose only purpose is the happiness and well-being of others. They can end up in bad relationships where they’re willingly being used and put in a service-oriented position. As their stress increases they begin to cling to people and try to keep them attached by undermining their independence and offering them unconditional care and support instead.


    Stressors:


    • feeling under appreciated and under valued
    • tense environments
    • tight deadlines
    • being overloaded with too many tasks
    • feeling like the only one who is responsible
    • dealing with abstract concepts
    • adjusting to new things, and people

    Stress Response:


    • Nose to the grindstone; increased irritability and sense of  pressure
    • Stubbornness; over focus on detail and organizing
    • Withdrawal and increased quietness; fatigue and other physical symptoms
    • Feelings of  loss of control or confusion
    • Excessive doom saying; anticipation of only negative futures
    • Unusually impulsive behavior
    • General negativity
    • Blaming others without a reason
    • Unusual impulsivity and spontanity



    ISTJ

    When faced with stress overload, which may come from dealing with unfamiliar territory and uncertain futures, dealing with others who seem to work outside of the current reality, or having to overuse their type by being expected to constantly act as “the responsible one”, ISTJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Intuition.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character such as interpreting bizarre meanings and focusing on negative possibilities rather than the present reality.

    As the pressure rises, they become increasingly intolerant of diversity and may start seeing other people as irresponsible and lacking appropriate standards and ethics. They try to take control of others and become stuck in limiting rules and regulations, afraid of change and taking any risks into the unknown.


    Stressors:


    • dealing with problems for which their past experience is of no use
    • having to improvise
    • too much extraverting
    • emotionally intense situations
    • disorganized environments
    • tight dealines
    • deviating from established methods and trying new approaches
    • Being asked to do something without a plan or direction
    • being in unfamiliar surroundings

    Stress Response:


    • Nose to the grindstone; increased irritability
    • Stubbornness; over focus on detail and organizing
    • Withdrawal and increased quietness
    • Feelings of  loss of  control or confusion
    • Excessive doom saying; anticipation of only negative futures
    • Unusually impulsive behavior
    • General negativity
    • Blaming others without a reason
    • Unusual impulsivity and spontanity



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    ESFJ

    When faced with stress overload, which may come from being expected to conform with something that goes against their values, spending time in an emotionally toxic, combative, and/or excessively critical environment, or being in an environment where there is a basic lack of trust between individuals, ESFJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Thinking.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character such as over-analyzing problems and exhibiting indecision. They may also become highly critical of others logic and thus lash out at them, focusing on their mistakes and perceived lack of competence, and flaws.

    ESFJs usually keep their distress and inner conflicts away from public eye. They are terrified of being judged and criticized by others while on the other hand they can be highly intolerant of what they perceive as inappropriate behaviors. They begin to feel used and unappreciated by others and as their resentment grows, they are prone to rash and thoughtless actions that may end up damaging the relationships they care so much for.


    Stressors:


    • lack of structure in the workplace
    • dealing with abstract concepts
    • interpersonal conflict
    • sudden changes to their plans
    • tight dealines
    • disharmony in their relationships
    • conflicts and violations of their values
    • feeling unappreciated and unsupported by others
    • Criticism

    Stress Response:


    • Over attentive to others’ feelings; trying to make things “right” with others or trying to fix others’ perceived difficulties
    • Inflexibility and increasing difficulty seeing or trying new approaches
    • Begin noticing physical symptoms of  stress;appetite disturbances
    • Extreme criticism, even condemnation, of others based on small events
    • Black-and-white thinking, difficulty thinking clearly, confusion
    • Withdrawal, criticism of self, feeling inadequate
    • Feeling unappreciated, taken for granted
    • General sadness, withdrawal
    • Frequent mood swings



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    ESTJ

    When burdened with stress, which may come from being confronted with intense emotions, feeling guilt over being critical towards others, or not having their strongly held values and/or feelings validated, ESTJs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Feeling.  When this happens, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely uncharacteristic such as pontificating and exhibiting self righteous behavior.  They may also have emotional outbursts and withdraw from others to conceal their emotional instability. ESTJs may become overly sensitive regarding their relationships and interpret tiny, inconsequential details as signs that others dislike or hate them.

    ESTJs are likely to start viewing others as being overly subjective and weak, therefore consider that it’s time to take control and set things right. They can become domineering and uncompromising, imposing their viewpoint and considering their logic as the only valid standard. Craving personal contact and affection, but unable to give in to their emotional side, they blame others for being corrupt, subjective and disrespectful and a self-righteous anger takes over them. As the pressure becomes intolerable, psychological outlet valves open to release frustration in inappropriate ways: anger bursts, impulsive behaviors, excessive drinking or eating.


    Stressors:


    • dealing with poorly organized situations
    • obstructions to their work
    • emotional and irrational people
    • incompetent people
    • sudden changes in their plans
    • adjusting to new surroundings
    • adopting new ways of doing things

    Stress Response:


    • Excessive criticism; categorical negative judgments about people and events
    • Increasing difficulty listening to input from others
    • Irritability and intolerance of  deviations from the rules
    • Strong emotional outbursts; feelings of vulnerability
    • Excessive sensitivity to feeling alone, left out, unappreciated
    • Withdrawal; hiding tension and feelings
    • Sadism, not caring or not being aware when crushing other people’s feelings
    • Viewing others as weak
    • Closed mindedness, not willing to accept any alternatives



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    ISFP

    ISFPs will likely become stressed when they are denied time to spend alone, and they often struggle when they feel overwhelmed by demands placed upon them. They may find it difficult to be in situations where they are forced to do a great deal of specific, data driven, long term planning.  ISFPs also tend to struggle in environments where they feel criticized or unappreciated. When faced with stress overload, which may come from a gross or frequent violation of their deeply held values, spending time in an emotionally toxic and/or excessively critical environment, or worrying that they are about to lose someone or something (relationship, task, etc.) close to them, ISFPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Thinking.

    ISFPs under distress will give a lot of importance to their personal freedom, their choices, their lifestyle and their subjective view of life. Feeling threatened by conforming and the prospect of giving up their ideals, they start rejecting other people’s help and advice, becoming increasingly defensive and dismissive. They may resort to sarcasm, become cryptic or derogatory. As frustration grows, they tend to isolate in order to escape outer influence on them, and live life on the edge of society, refusing to take any logical considerations into account and relying solely on their creative emotions and peculiar worldview.


    Stressors:


    • transgression against their values 
    • Too much extraverting.
    • excessive responsibilities and demands on their time
    • dealing with granular details
    • maintaining and organizing their schedules
    • Criticism
    • feeling unappreciated and under-valued
    • pressure to perform up to other’s standards

    Stress Response:


    • Withdraw, become quiet, and begin noticing physical symptoms of stress
    • Become hypersensitive to imagined slights
    • Avoid or put off  actions that might create discomfort or conflict
    • Become extremely critical of others
    • May find self or others to be terribly incompetent
    • Exaggerated and impulsive directing or organizing of environment or others
    • Hopelessness, sadness
    • Martyr-like attitude
    • Loss of confidence and motivation



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    ISTP

    ISTPs like autonomy in work and are typically stressed by depending on or being in charge of the quality of another’s work. They also struggle in environments where they lack time alone to work, and/or where they are often immersed in emotionally charged environments. They may often find it difficult to be in situations where there is little challenge or variety in day to day tasks or in places where rules are rigidly enforced. When faced with stress overload, which may come from being confronted with intense emotions, having needs for space and introversion disregarded or disrespected (ex. others barging in without invitation or too frequently), or not having their strongly held values and/or feelings validated, ISTPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Extraverted Feeling.

    ISTPs have the tendency to resist and reject any requests or situations that do not fit their natural views on life. Afraid of being controlled by others, they protect their freedom by cutting demanding people out of their lives and may start associating themselves solely with those who bear similar, usually antisocial outlooks on things. As the pressure increases, they are very likely to take rebellious stances against society and its organizational systems (government, political parties etc.), whose power they perceive as threatening to their independence.


    Stressors:


    • Being in controlling relationships.
    • dealing with emotional irrational people
    • dealing with abstract theories and concepts
    • intense and emotionally charged people
    • Too much extraverting.
    • boring repetitive work
    • being underestimated or feeling under valued
    • having their values disregarded

    Stress Resp0nse:


    • Withdrawal and quietness, increased irritability
    • Excessive thinking and cogitating with emphasis on logic; increasing insensitivity to others
    • Become very task-oriented and focused on busywork
    • Emotional outbursts
    • Feelings of  not being liked or appreciated
    • Forgetfulness, disorganization, confusion
    • Passive aggressiveness
    • Sarcastic and mean remarks
    • Vagueness, distractibility, disorganization



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    ESFP

    When faced with stress overload, which may come from being forced to make commitments or plans in advance, being forced to make decisions or eliminate options before they are ready, or having to spend a lot of time following someone else’s rules and/or schedules, ESFPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Intuition.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character.  This may include having fearful fantasies of the possibilities of impending doom swirling in their minds, like a tornado. They may begin to assign big meaning to small occurrences, and they may become uncharacteristically preoccupied with the meaning of life and the future of mankind or the universe.

    ESFPs are likely to first experience depression and disinterest, as a result of diminished physical and emotional energy. They may become self-absorbed and indifferent towards other’s needs and finally may leave their current situation altogether, in search of a whole new alternative. As the psychological pressure increases, ESFPs may begin acting in a flighty, superficial manner, attracted to the satisfaction of the moment while disregarding the consequences of their actions.


    Stressors:


    • having to plan for the future
    • being tied down by commitments and obligations
    • conflict and criticism
    • feeling not in control of their lives
    • doing things without clear directions or purpose
    • lack of physical stimulation
    • lack of human interaction
    • academics and school work
    • being stuck in one place for extended lengths of time

    Stress Response:


    • Increased talkativeness; feeling confused and/or scattered
    • Begin noticing physical symptoms of  stress; appetite disturbances
    • Excessive fun-seeking behaviors, and avoidance of issues that might create conflict
    • Increased pessimism and negativity; fears about the future
    • Feelings of  confusion and self-doubt; worry and withdrawal
    • Over-interpreting the behavior of  others as mean-spirited
    • Internal confusion
    • Losing touch with reality, sense of impending doom
    • Clinging onto worst case scenarios



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    ESTP

    When under stress, which may come from being cornered into commitments or plans in advance, being forced to make decisions or eliminate options before they are ready, or having to spend a lot of time following someone else’s rules and/or schedules, ESTPs may find themselves “in the grip” of their inferior function, Introverted Intuition.  During this experience, the individual is likely to do things that are typically completely out of character.  This may include having fearful fantasies of negative outcomes. They may express paranoid suspicions of impending doom or conspiratorial plots against them.

    ESTPs are used to dealing with their problems and frustrations by searching for more external stimulation and adventure. When their situation is causing them to feel disappointed and restless, ESTPs consider it is time to recreate their successful public persona, by either finding a new audience to charm or resorting to grand gestures that will reinforce their image and make them feel popular again. At the same time, their private life suffers from a deep sense of emptiness and intimacy becomes almost impossible as they become increasingly detached from true emotional connections.


    Stressors:


    • feeling subjugated and beholden to others
    • performing tasks without adequate directions and resources
    • academic work
    • lack of external stimulus
    • being forced into commitments and decisions
    • having their options limited
    • not being allowed to act in the moment
    • negative low energy people

    Stress Response:


    • Increased talkativeness, sense of  pressure, and irritability
    • Increased frankness; insensitivity to people’s feelings
    • Rapid switching among activities; increased pleasure seeking
    • Fears of  disaster and doom; deep significance given to minor events
    • Feelings of  confusion and self-doubt; worry and withdrawal
    • Over-interpreting the behavior of  others as mean-spirited
    • Internal confusion
    • Losing touch with reality, sense of impending doom
    • Clinging onto worst case scenarios



    Mounting stress and pressure can lead to a complete and epic unraveling of our psychological fabric that gives way to a side of ourselves that others despise. How we respond to that stress and the types of stress we are sensitive to will vary from person to person. In the Myers Briggs type theory, each personality type manifests signs of stress in ways particular to them and the sources and causes of it will differ as well. Although there are life conditions that everyone finds to be stressful, the stress responses of some types can be triggered by events and circumstances that a different type may experience as desirable and energizing.

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    How Each Myers Briggs Type Reacts To Conflict

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    While each of the MBTI preferences influences how people approach and respond to conflict, research has shown that the preferences represented by the last two letters in the four-letter MBTI type code have the greatest impact on one’s conflict style. These letters are called the conflict pairs, and they represent the combination of one’s decision-making preference for either Thinking (T) or Feeling (F) and one’s lifestyle preference for either Judging (J) or Perceiving (P).




    ISTP

    ISTPs are not afraid of conflict and they are not easily intimidated or threatened by confrontation. In most cases, especially in their public lives, ISTPs are not likely to respond to situations emotionally, but rather stoically, with a focus on understanding the issue and gathering information. They are willing to compromise when they can and they take criticism rather well, at least when it’s coming from people they respect. 

    In the midst of crisis they have the ability to perform decisively and skillfully. They seem to have a high tolerance for stress, but when they reach their limits, they can blow up in heated anger. Those close to them may know this aspect unfortunately because ISTPs can sometimes take their pent up frustration out on loved ones. This is especially true when they feel double-bound or restricted in their relationships. Fortunately, ISTPs tend not to hold on to grudges and are happy to move past the drama.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to trust
    • Desired outcome: Defined process or progression
    • Deal with emotions by: Excluding them
    • Others’ impression: Catalyst of or contributor to conflict
    • Satisfied when: The outcome can subsequently be analyzed



    ISFP

    While ISFPs typically dislike conflict, they are often not in a rush to reach closure as they appreciate the time needed to listen to everyone.  They have difficulty with others offering a logical analysis that appears to overlook the possible negative impact on others.  For FPs, conflict issues tend to involve something they are passionate about, be it a value or people who are important to them. The amount of time ISFPs spend exploring people’s concerns can be frustrating for TJs, whom they perceive as impatient to move on. Their intention is to have everyone’s opinions, feelings, and values respected. Including others is often more important than the issue.  You are naturally sensitive to any conflict around you. Success for you is achieved when you or others create a safe environment to allow an exploration of all viewpoints.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to values
    • Desired outcome: Respectful listening
    • Deal with emotions by: Accepting them
    • Others’ impression: Someone who includes others’ values and concerns
    • Satisfied when: There is open exploration



    ESFP

    ESFPs are likely to be viewed in conflict as people who seek to hear all sides of the story. Others typically see them as being accepting of disparate views and committed to their own values. For FPs, conflict issues tend to involve something they are passionate about, be it a value or people who are important to them. While ESFPs would not typically want to engage in conflict, they accept that it is necessary when they care so much about who or what is involved. Throughout a conflict, ESFPs have a strong need to include the opinions and feelings of everyone. They are naturally sensitive to any conflict around them. Success for for the ESFP is achieved when they or others create a safe environment to allow an exploration of all viewpoints.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to values
    • Desired outcome: Respectful listening
    • Deal with emotions by: Accepting them
    • Others’ impression: Someone who includes others’ values and concerns
    • Satisfied when: There is open exploration



    ESTP

    As ESTPs’ tolerance of conflict situations is higher than that of most people, don’t be surprised if they see conflict as a challenge or as healthy. Remember that for them, the process of addressing the conflict is as important as the outcome. ESTPs’ comfort with exploring means they will be in no rush to reach closure. ESTPs will express feelings only when they are sure everyone present can be trusted. ESTPs may frustrate others with their seemingly ever-changing rules of engagement. They are acutely aware of where the power lies in any situation and will fluctuate between needing to have access to the power and supporting the underdog. Their intention is to ensure the conflict has been explored from all angles.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to trust
    • Desired outcome: Defined process or progression
    • Deal with emotions by: Excluding them
    • Others’ impression: Catalyst of or contributor to conflict
    • Satisfied when: The outcome can subsequently be analyzed



    ISTJ

    They may tend to overlook the emotional content in conflict even though strong emotion does exist. Their engagement can shift from easygoing and agreeable to intense and seemingly angry, all within the same situation. This paradox could be the root of the changeable intensity those with TJ preferences can show—holding back emotion for a time, then having it burst out, albeit for a short period. Success in a conflict is measured not by whether their particular viewpoint prevails, but by the clear identification of a viewpoint as a way forward.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to authority
    • Desired outcome: Closure or resolution
    • Deal with emotions by: Denying they exist
    • Others’ impression: Detached or aggressive adversary
    • Satisfied when: Conflict is over



    ISFJ

    ISFJs typically view conflict as a difficult or negative experience.  Their rush to closure is likely motivated by a desire to make sure no one gets hurt rather than an objective assessment that everything is sorted out. It is only after ISFJs are certain everyone’s concerns and feelings have been given attention that they can begin to look at other factors. Once engaged in a conflict, FJs can be intense and emotional and will encourage others to share their feelings and opinions in the hope that this will lead to a resolution. Typically they will equate success in a conflict with the relationships remaining intact and there being no lingering bitterness.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to beliefs
    • Desired outcome: Intact relationships
    • Deal with emotions by: Including them
    • Others’ impression: Seeker of communication and harmony
    • Satisfied when: There is no lingering bitterness



    ESTJ

    For TJs, conflict tends to arise around authority issues. Questioning of hierarchy, reporting lines, seniority, and decision-making roles can be a red flag for them. When they are involved in a conflict, their primary need is for closure or resolution—to have it over and done with. They may tend to overlook the emotional content in conflict even though strong emotion does exist. Their engagement can shift from easygoing and agreeable to intense and seemingly angry, all within the same situation. This paradox could be the root of the changeable intensity those with TJ preferences can show—holding back emotion for a time, then having it burst out, albeit for a short period. Success in a conflict is measured not by whether their particular viewpoint prevails, but by the clear identification of a viewpoint as a way forward.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to authority
    • Desired outcome: Closure or resolution
    • Deal with emotions by: Denying they exist
    • Others’ impression: Detached or aggressive adversary
    • Satisfied when: Conflict is over



    ESFJ

    FJs are likely to be viewed in conflict as needing and seeking harmony. They typically view conflict as a difficult or negative experience. Others typically see them as being warm and caring, and at times uncomfortable with the tension associated with conflict. For FJs, conflict tends to arise when their core beliefs or values are being challenged.  Their primary concern during conflict is the well-being of the relationships between those involved. At times this can lead them to ignore signals of conflict in the hope that it will go away or to brush conflict under the rug to avoid dealing with the painful issues that may come up.  Their rush to closure is likely motivated by a desire to make sure no one gets hurt rather than an objective assessment that everything is sorted out.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to beliefs
    • Desired outcome: Intact relationships
    • Deal with emotions by: Including them
    • Others’ impression: Seeker of communication and harmony
    • Satisfied when: There is no lingering bitterness



    INTP

    While aware of the emotions involved, they prefer to set these aside so as to allow a healthy and hearty debate. However, this may be done without due regard for others’ feelings, resulting in TPs’ being perceived as a catalyst or creator of conflict. Their attitude toward conflict fluctuates between seeing it as a waste of time and considering it a useful mechanism for working through issues. For them, success in a conflict is about seeking to clarify the situation. As a result, they often subsequently review and analyze matters.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to trust
    • Desired outcome: Defined process or progression
    • Deal with emotions by: Excluding them
    • Others’ impression: Catalyst of or contributor to conflict
    • Satisfied when: The outcome can subsequently be analyzed

    INTJ

    likely to be viewed in conflict as being rational, offering critical commentary and demonstrating a keen ability to make decisions based on the information at hand. Others typically see them as cool-headed, analytical, and clear thinking. For TJs, conflict tends to arise around authority issues. Questioning of hierarchy, reporting lines, seniority, and decision-making roles can be a red flag for them. When they are involved in a conflict, their primary need is for closure or resolution—to have it over and done with.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to authority
    • Desired outcome: Closure or resolution
    • Deal with emotions by: Denying they exist
    • Others’ impression: Detached or aggressive adversary
    • Satisfied when: Conflict is over



    ENTP

    ’ENTP’s tolerance of conflict situations is higher than that of most people, don’t be surprised if they see conflict as a challenge or as healthy. They are likely to be viewed in conflict as being critical and prepared to question anything relating to the conflict or the people involved. Others typically see them as being comfortable playing the role of devil’s advocate or championing the underdog. For TPs, conflict tends to arise around issues of trust and personal credibility. Instances that challenge these concepts tend to be at the core of their conflicts. When involved in a conflict, they are driven to find a way to navigate through the issues.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to trust
    • Desired outcome: Defined process or progression
    • Deal with emotions by: Excluding them
    • Others’ impression: Catalyst of or contributor to conflict
    • Satisfied when: The outcome can subsequently be analyzed



    ENTJ

    Most ENTJs believe they are right and may be stubborn when confronting an alternate point of view. All will want a quick resolution, but don’t brush aside important matters solely to move on. Keep in mind that your objectivity will allow all to find a way out of a conflict but may not limit its underlying emotional impact. Encourage everyone to give time to listen to each viewpoint. Don’t interpret succinct responses as being abrupt or disrespectful. Remember that it will be difficult to create an environment in which it is safe to express emotions. ENTJs believe that once a conflict is over, it’s over, so don’t miss opportunities to say what you need to say.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to authority
    • Desired outcome: Closure or resolution
    • Deal with emotions by: Denying they exist
    • Others’ impression: Detached or aggressive adversary
    • Satisfied when: Conflict is over



    INFP

    In conflict situations, INFPs pay most attention to who is involved and on the needs being expressed and the values at stake. They tend to accept and appreciate the differences between people and the positions they hold. INFPs communicate in a tactful manner and are prepared to give and take when settling differences. Like others with a preference for Perceiving they tend to seek clarification and progress rather than an immediate solution. They focus on the present when describing the conflict and concern themselves primarily with the input from all perspectives. They experience satisfaction once the conflict is being addressed.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to values
    • Desired outcome: Respectful listening
    • Deal with emotions by: Accepting them
    • Others’ impression: Someone who includes others’ values and concerns
    • Satisfied when: There is open exploration

    INFJ

    Their primary concern during conflict is the well-being of the relationships between those involved. At times this can lead them to ignore signals of conflict in the hope that it will go away or to brush conflict under the rug to avoid dealing with the painful issues that may come up. Once engaged in a conflict, FJs can be intense and emotional and will encourage others to share their feelings and opinions in the hope that this will lead to a resolution. Typically they will equate success in a conflict with the relationships remaining intact and there being no lingering bitterness.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to beliefs
    • Desired outcome: Intact relationships
    • Deal with emotions by: Including them
    • Others’ impression: Seeker of communication and harmony
    • Satisfied when: There is no lingering bitterness



    ENFP

    In most situations, you endeavor to create a warm and caring environment in which everyone can thrive. Conflict is no different. You want everyone to have an opportunity to have his or her say in a comfortable and safe setting. Challenges to your values trigger conflict for you. When you believe that something or someone you care about is in danger, you will readily fight to defend it or him or her. Occasionally someone’s perceived overreaction to what you have said or done can spark a similar response in you and lead to a conflict situation. In addition, your frustration with bureaucracy or systems that inhibit your creativity or personal well-being can trigger conflict. May take things too personally and have difficulty being objective. May not be ready to move on when others are. May be satisfied with partial resolution of a conflict. May not accept that all conflicts can end amicably

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to values
    • Desired outcome: Respectful listening
    • Deal with emotions by: Accepting them
    • Others’ impression: Someone who includes others’ values and concerns
    • Satisfied when: There is open exploration



    ENFJ

    ENFJs are likely to be viewed in conflict as needing and seeking harmony. Others typically see them as being warm and caring, and at times uncomfortable with the tension associated with conflict. For FJs, conflict tends to arise when their core beliefs or values are being challenged. Their primary concern during conflict is the well-being of the relationships between those involved.  Their rush to closure is likely motivated by a desire to make sure no one gets hurt rather than an objective assessment that everything is sorted out.  It is only after FJs are certain everyone’s concerns and feelings have been given attention that they can begin to look at other factors.

    • Likely cause of conflict: Challenges to beliefs
    • Desired outcome: Intact relationships
    • Deal with emotions by: Including them
    • Others’ impression: Seeker of communication and harmony
    • Satisfied when: There is no lingering bitterness



     

     

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    Harvard Scientists REVERSE Aging in Mice. Humans Next…

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    “Researchers have found a way to protect a mouse’s DNA from the damage that comes with aging, and they’re ready to test it in people.

    Dr. David Sinclair, from Harvard Medical School, and his colleagues reveal their new findings in the latest issue of Science. They focused on an intriguing compound with anti-aging properties called NAD+, short for nicotinamide adenine dinucleotide. It’s been known that younger mice had more of it than older mice and back in 2013, the researchers found that when they boosted the NAD+ levels in older mice, they looked, biologically, like much younger animals.

    In the latest paper, the scientists revealed new details on how NAD+ works to keep cells young. Sinclair put drops of NAD+ into the water of a group of mice, and within a couple of hours, their NAD+ levels started to rise. Within the first week, the scientists saw obvious age reversal in muscle and improvements in DNA repair. “We can’t tell the difference between the tissues from an old mouse that is two years old versus a young mouse that is three to four months old,” Sinclair says.”*

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    A Twisted Sense of Humor May Be A Sign of Intelligence

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    So here’s a joke:

    man walks into a rooftop bar and takes a seat next to another guy. “What are you drinking?” he asks the guy. “Magic beer,” he says. “Oh, yeah? What’s so magical about it?” Then he shows him: He swigs some beer, dives off the roof, flies around the building, then finally returns to his seat with a triumphant smile. “Amazing!” the man says. “Lemme try some of that!” The man grabs the beer. He downs it, leaps off the roof —and plummets 15 stories to the ground. The bartender shakes his head. “You know, you’re a real jerk when you’re drunk, Superman.”


    If that made you lol, then chances are you smart, you really smart…


    Matter fact… maybe you a genius.


    Why? Well according to a January 2017 study published in Cognitive processing Journal, individuals who enjoyed dark humor tested significantly higher on scales of verbal and non-verbal intelligence than those offended by off-color jokes. A research team led by Ulrike Willinger at the Medical University of Vienna gathered a sample comprised of 156 adults and recorded their responses to 12 dark humor cartoons taken from German cartoonist, Uli Stein’s “The Black Book“. Dark humor (also referred as gallows humor) is defined as being “a kind of humor that treats sinister subjects like death, disease, deformity, handicap or warfare with bitter amusement and presents such tragic, distressing or morbid topics in humorous terms.”

    The study rated participants across a number of variables including dark humor comprehension, dark humor preference, aggression, mood disruption, and verbal and non-verbal intelligence. For each cartoon, individuals were asked to rate on a 4-point scale the difficulty of understanding the joke, the vulgarity of it, the level of surprise by the punchline and how well it fit, the novelty of it, their interest in the subject matter, and the amount of pleasure they derived from it. The researchers found that the results pitted participants into 3 highly correlated groups.

    • Group 1: showed moderate black humor comprehension, moderate black humor preference, low aggressiveness, average verbal and non-verbal intelligence and low mood disturbance.
    • Group 2: showed moderate black humor comprehension, low black humor preference, high mood disturbance, average verbal and non-verbal intelligence, and high aggressiveness .
    • Group 3: showed high black humor comprehension and preference, high verbal and non-verbal intelligence, no mood disturbance and low aggressiveness.

    Researchers concluded that the cognitive and emotional complexities involved in processing dark humor allowed people of higher intelligence and calm temperament to better recognize and appreciate the comedy in otherwise upsetting and disturbing content matter. Higher intelligence also correlates with a better ability to use humor as a coping mechanism for dealing with trauma, tragedy and stress.

    Psychologists have long attributed a relationship between humor and intelligence and many theories assert the key concept behind humor is the recognition of incongruity. Humor itself has been described as the resolving of incongruities or a “reconciliation of paradox”. It is believed that much of the same right brain skills involved in problem solving are also required to process and understand jokes. Smarter people are able to process the morbid and disturbing contexts of dark humor without being put off by it and hence comprehend the meaning of the joke enough to enjoy it.

    Here are descriptions of the 12 cartoons used in the study. See if you find them humorous or not.

    Cartoon

    Situation

    Text

    1.

    Santa Claus, standing on a long, thin tail and having some drops of blood under and on both boots, has been giving Christmas presents to a penguin, a dog and a cat, standing in front of him. Having distributed a fish, a dog biscuit and a tuna tin to them, he still has a gift wrapped cheese left in his hands.

    Santa Claus: ‘And who put the cheese on his letter to me?’

    2.

    Death, impersonated by a skeleton in a hooded coat holding an hourglass and a sickle stands at the doorstep of a man’s apartment.

    The man: ‘I am sorry, we do not die at the front door.’

    3.

    Up on a veritable height a man stands at the outer windowsill of an apartment block. Having a noose laid around his neck and a fixed knife directed to his stomach he puts a gun against his head. Beside him on the sill lies an emptied bottle labelled as poison and an envelope. Inside the apartment are two police officers, one of them pointing at the man saying:

    ‘Hey – I know this guy from elementary school. I remember that we called him Eberhard, the efficient.’

    4.

    A man scratching his chin apparently out of confusion is clutching the receiver of a public phone box. The voice coming from the receiver says:

    ‘Here is the answering machine of the self-help association for Alzheimer patients. If you still remember your topic, please speak after the tone.’

    5.

    A general practitioner is explaining the result of a medical test to a couple with her being pregnant:

    ‘To begin with, here is the good news: Your child will always find a parking space.’

    6.

    Four men are standing high up on a bungee jumping platform. One of them is holding a rope fixed on the one end to the platform. The other end of the rope is tied around a leg prosthesis that is turned upside down. One of them is telling the others:

    ‘I didn’t examining his certificate of disability in all detail.’

    7.

    A group of surgeons in an operating theatre is in the middle of what looks like a heart surgery. Without a sign of warning the heart springs out of the patient’s body right into one of the surgeons’ faces. Another surgeon remarks:

    ‘That’s the most amazing case of tissue rejection I’ve ever seen!’

    8.

    In a morgue a physician is lifting a white cover sheet off a body with a woman standing beside him. The woman confirms:

    ‘Sure, that’s my husband – anyway, which washing powder did you use to get that so white?’

    9.

    Two women, apparently real chatterboxes, are having a chat over coffee.

    The first one: ‘He is crippled, she is crippled and what’s more they are going to have a baby.’

    The other one: ‘I do hope things straighten themselves out.’

    10.

    In an operating theatre a surgeon has one arm deep in an opened body. Another surgeon explains the situation to a man in a suit:

    ‘The autopsy is finished; he is only looking for his wrist watch.’

    11.

    A dentist is on a root canal job with the patient being completely tensed up due to pain. At the back of the patient’s chair the tip of a rotating dental drill, apparently having worked its way through the patient’s mouth and neck comes into sight. The dentist asks his patient:

    ‘Does it hurt?’

    12.

    After having committed suicide the body of a man hangs from a light fixture in a living room, hung by his tie. His wife enters the room with a friend and looking at him she complains:

    ‘And once again the green tie with the blue suit. Come on, what have I been nagging him about for all these years?’


    6 twisted jokes to make you LOLOLOL.


    Q: What’s white on the top and black on the bottom?




    A: Society.

    Q: What’s the difference between John Wayne and Jack Daniels?




    A: Jack Daniels is still killing Indians.

    Q: What’s the difference between a garbanzo bean and a chick pea?




    A: I wouldn’t pay 40 bucks to have a garbanzo bean on my face.

    Q: Who’s the opposite of Christopher Reeves?




    A: Christopher Walkin.

    Q: How many potatoes does it take to kill an Irishman?




    A: Zero.

    Q: What did Kermit the Frog say at Jim Henson’s funeral?




    A: Nothing.

     

    Willinger, U., Hergovich, A., Schmoeger, M., Deckert, M., Stoettner, S., Bunda, I., Witting, A., Seidler, M., Moser, R., Kacena, S. and Jaeckle, D., 2017. Cognitive and emotional demands of black humour processing: the role of intelligence, aggressiveness and mood. Cognitive processing, pp.1-9.

    Hauck, W.E. and Thomas, J.W., 1972. The relationship of humor to intelligence, creativity, and intentional and incidental learning. The journal of experimental education, 40(4), pp.52-55.

    Source: If You Laugh at These Dark Jokes, You’re Probably a Genius
    Source: Can Psychology Explain Humor?
    Source: Intelligence & Humor: Are Smarter People Funnier?
    Source: Cognitive and Emotional Demands of Dark Humor Processing: The Role of Intelligence, Aggressiveness and Mood
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    ource: If you have a dark sense of humor you might be more intelligent

     

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