INTP
- In trying to explain how they got from A to B they may condescendingly simplify things to the point of insult or give up with a dismissive “never mind”.
- Delaying the completion of their work indefinitely with constant revisions, sometimes even quitting before they ever begin.
- Setting aside their partners’ feelings, and their own, for far too long.
- Dressing oddly/shabbily, neglecting personal hygiene and carry a distinctive smell that they do not realize they exude.
- Emotionally inattentive. May need reminders to pay attention to their relationships and family life.
- Being rather messy and feel little need to maintain a clean work space to study.
- Not following instructions or finishing tasks
- Showing off their pithiness instead of using plain language that would be better understood.
- Passive-aggressive tendencies like not answering the phone or giving the silent treatment.
- While busy chewing their mental cud, they don’t pay much attention to external details.
- Tendency to poke holes in other’s faulty logic with an emphasis on clarity and precise word use. Feel honor bound to correct other’s mistaken ideas.
INTJ
- Being too controlling of others and trying to shape them according to their ideals.
- Closing themselves off to the opinions of those they believe to be intellectually inferior.
- Insensitive and tactless in making their opinions of others all too clear.
- Unnecessarily saying harmful and distorted things.
- Delusional and foolish overestimation of their abilities.
- Neurotic level of perfectionism that runs others away.
- Reluctance in accepting blame.
- Tend to blame others for misunderstanding them rather than evaluate their own difficulty expressing themselves.
- Tendency to over-analyze and be judgmental, as well as arrogant.
- Viewing emotions as being for the weak.
- Over-delegating and entitlement; expecting and demanding from others to take care of tasks they could and should handle themselves.
- Looking down on and rejecting others based solely on perceived and imagined status.
ENTP
- Turning everything into an object for debate.
- Asking probing and personal questions that make others feel uncomfortable.
- Purposely lying for their own amusement.
- Being impersistent and abandoning things they’ve started.
- Prodding and pushing people’s buttons just to see what they’ll do.
- Blurting out random things without having thought them through first.
- Can be insensitive and unintentionally hurt others’ feelings.
- Being wishy-washy and frequently changing their minds; backing out of commitments at the last moment.
ENTJ
- Extreme tunnel vision.
- Being too controlling of others and trying to shape them according to their ideals.
- Closing themselves off to the opinions of those they believe to be intellectually inferior.
- Insensitive and tactless in making their opinions of others all too clear.
- Unnecessarily saying harmful and distorted things.
- Delusional and foolish overconfidence in their abilities.
- Neurotic level of perfectionism that runs others away.
- Tendency to over-analyze and be judgmental, as well as arrogant.
- Can be a “control-freak,” always wanting to be in charge
- Being unreceptive to other’s opinions and being dead-set on having their way.
- Being anal retentive and perfectionistic and yelling at others when under stress.
INFP
- Can get too sensitive over things that aren’t a big deal but can’t really help feeling hurt or sad.
- Being insecure and acting childishly.
- Wallowing in their own self-pity and feeling sorry for themselves.
- Sarcasm and passive aggressive behavior.
- Sudden mood swings that catches others off guard.
- When stressed, may be prone to emotional outbursts.
- Sucking the fun out of everything when they’re in a foul mood.
- Emotional baggage.
- More concerned with the way things make them feel than in making rational arguments and can often appear irrational and illogical.
- In group situations, may have a “control” problem where they want to take over everything because group members’ standards often aren’t as high as theirs.
INFJ
- Whining if things don’t go their way; if they don’t feel appreciated.
- Tendency to believe they’re always right and dismiss/ignore other peoples’ opinions, even before fully hearing them out.
- Prone to petty acts of revenge for insignificant sleights.
- Hypersensitive to criticism.
- Walling off part of themselves and often don’t let others in, even if they are trustworthy and wouldn’t hurt them.
- If hurt too many times by someone any hope for forgiveness will be denied – forever.
- Their arguments essentially boil down to whether something is “good or bad” and it is right “just because.”
- Can become “cold-hearted bastards” and “ice queens”.
- Take forever to complete certain tasks in an attempt to make it perfect.
- Not returning phone calls.
- Can get carried away with self-righteous outrage when an “injustice” has been committed.
- They hold grudges for long periods of time.
- Pretending to listen and consider alternatives when in reality they’ve already made up their minds.
- Believing they understand you better than you understand yourself.
- Seem to care more about formality than content. ie. it’s about how you ask them, not your intention.
ENFP
- Can, at times, be overly anxious and worrisome
- Being impulsive and capricious.
- Their enthusiasm may cause them to be unrealistic.
- Takes criticism poorly.
- Tendency to not follow through on projects, usually because they get excited about a new project and abandon the first for the second – this may become a problematic cycle
- May be overly concerned with being liked.
- Always seeing the possibility of what could be often causes them become bored with what actually is.
- Impatient and strongly driven to blindly pursue every interesting or promising idea/path that one imagines will lead to “success” as measured by external standards.
- Prone to projecting personal inadequacies onto others.
- Prone to being argumentative, domineering, arrogant, caustic, jealous, envious, or territorial; tendency to demand agreement/approval from others or streamroll people who disagree.
ENFJ
- Believing themselves to be superior and more deserving of validation on the sole basis of having better “social skills.”
- Meddling, intruding, giving little to no space or privacy – no matter how uncomfortable they’re making others.
- Doing too much “for others” when it was not asked of them, when they were clearly asked to stop (several times) – and then resenting others for it and expecting and demanding in return.
- Tendency to act as if they know so much about what you’re talking about, even if they don’t.
- Inability to let go of others who have long ceased to be (or want to be) connected to them.
- Keeping others from making decisions on their own and from living their own experiences by instilling worries and fear where they’re not due.
- Believing they know better what’s best for others when, in fact, they don’t – and forcing their views onto others.
- Whining when things don’t go their way, if they don’t feel appreciated.
ISFJ
- Expecting and demanding more consistency than is reasonable.
- Being closed off to anything new or different.
- Incessantly worry about everything, making simple things seem overly complicated.
- Unwilling to acknowledge or change faulty ideas/assumptions (can’t admit to being wrong);
- Very intolerant and vulnerable to conflicts and criticism.
- Need positive feedback and may become discouraged or depressed if they do not receive it.
- Convinced others don’t like, appreciate, or need them, and over-accommodate others’ needs.
- Get stuck in impressions of how things were and resist change; waste time reviewing the impact of the past.
- Can be argumentative and prone to blunt verbal retorts or attacks or blame.
- Refusing to listen to other perspectives and only accepts others when they agree.
ISTJ
- Such perfectionists and more than a bit controlling — if you don’t do things their way, you are doing things wrong.
- Can be know-it-alls.
- Tendency to be extremely judgmental.
- Can be cheap/stingy.
- Get stuck in impressions of how things were and resist change; waste time reviewing the impact of the past.
- Easily hurt by criticism or rejection yet unwilling to acknowledge being hurt.
- Ignoring suggestions and reluctant in changing their minds.
- Rigidly following a belief system or what they personally think is important, with accompanying childish and/or selfish behavior.
- Misinterpreting someone’s actions and seeing negative intentions where there are none.
ESFJ
- Extensive self-deprecation. Playing the victim card.
- Doing too much “for others” when it was not asked of them, when they were clearly asked to stop (several times) – and then resenting others for it and expecting and demanding in return.
- Assuming they understand others when, in reality, they’re only attributing their own motives and intentions to others.
- Believing they know better what’s best for others when, in fact, they don’t – and forcing their views onto others.
- Meddling, intruding, giving little to no space or privacy – no matter how uncomfortable they’re making others.
- Believing themselves to be superior and more deserving of validation on the sole basis of having better “social skills.”
- Schmoozing and gossiping about others.
- Keeping others from making decisions on their own and from living their own experiences by instilling worries and fear where they’re not due.
- Being manipulative to get what they want out of people.
- Pointing out the obvious and making gratuitous remarks.
- Being two-faced and disingenuous.
- Tendency to act as if they know so much about what you’re talking about, even if they don’t.
- Exaggerating their contribution to others and making humble brags.
- Being judgmental of others who don’t share enthusiasm or interest for what they enjoy.
- Virtue signalling and faking passion for whatever seems popular. A bandwagon groupie.
- Being overly dependent especially in relationships.
ESTJ
- Can be extremely judgmental
- Being stubborn, inflexible, unreasonable, and overly rigid.
- Tend to believe they’re always right.
- Tendency to be bossy.
- Impatient with sloppiness and inefficiency
- Can be insensitive and inadvertently hurt others
- Resists change.
- Have zero patience and no tolerance for those who do not share their values/beliefs
- Can be very demanding and critical.
- Interpret situations in a naive way, inferring malice where none exists.
- Spend money and time on things that are unimportant and care little about the value of things.
- Prone to being pessimistic and negative, often imagines or expects the worst possibilities.
- Deflects criticism or makes excuses for mistakes and failures.
- Micromanages situations and tries to maintain a sense of control with the unconscious intent of repressing internal feelings of instability or insecurity.
ISFP
Being easily and visibly displeased by anything less than “perfect” according to their own personal values.
Being self centered and personally concerned with only themselves to the point of egotism and conceitedness.
Inflated sense of uniqueness.
Projection assuming they understand others when, in reality, they’re only attributing their own motives and intentions to others.
Trying to bend and twist perceptions to make the wrong seem right.
Wallowing in self pity for extended periods of time.
Cannot seem to trust in anyone or anything.
Tends to obsess about the past or future and ignore present facts.
Being stubborn about values as they crusade for a particular cause.
Childish and/or selfish behavior.
ISTP
May avoid and ignore problems.
Tends to obsess about the past or future and ignore present facts.
Tendency to believe in mystical “signs” or intuitive “connections” that don’t really exist.
Tend to have difficulty with long-term commitments
Tendency to hold back part of themselves and be overly private
May intentionally stir things up to create the excitement they long for
Tend to get bored easily
Are often rule-breakers– do not necessarily respect or abide by the rules of the “system” (can be positive and negative)
Not naturally in tune with how they affect others.
Cannot seem to trust in anyone or anything.
ESFP
Prone to projecting personal inadequacies onto others.
Being argumentative, domineering, arrogant, caustic, jealous, envious, or territorial.
Tendency to demand agreement/approval from others or streamroll people who disagree.
Tendency towards immaturity.
Can be reckless/frivolous with money.
Being over-dramatic
May be materialistic and superficial.
Often do not handle criticism well – tendency to take things very personally
Tendency to ignore or try to escape from conflict rather than deal with it
Always excited by something new and may frequently change partners or be unfaithful.
ESTP
Needs constant agreement from others.
Cannot handle direct disagreement or criticism well; tends to feel unappreciated by others/society.
Seeks affirmation or admiration by dominating or manipulating social situations.
Unaware of own flaws/limitations.
Engaging in emotional pandering or showing off things like status, style, achievements, talents/skills, or material wealth.
May not realize or even care about the effect their words have on others
Can be bossy and somewhat unscrupulous when it comes to getting what they want.
May fall into trap of ignoring, rather solving their problems
May get bored easily and abandon relationships quickly once/if they become bored.
Though great at getting things started, they often struggle with following through.
